Imperfect.

It began on Valentine’s Day. I was playing board games with two of the best people I know. I thought, “I have always wanted to take a photo a day for a year, who says it has to start on Jan 1.” So, I snapped a picture, and made a commitment to take one a day for the next year.

I have not taken a picture a day since that day. However, what I have done is taken a picture a day-imperfectly. Normally, when I start something that doesn’t work like I wanted it to, I just stop. There might be excuses and rationalizations, there may be second chances and renewed attempts, but the old “failed” attempt is put away.

This time I tried something new. I missed a day and kept going. I have missed several days. But the project continues. I don’t know what the final count of pictures will be, but no longer is the goal 365 pictures. The goal is to look around my world, to look into my life and find the things that give me courage. To find and record those things which keep me from wanting to pack it up and go home.

My life is imperfect. My photo album is imperfect. But both are filled with extraordinary things.  

--Serving Him alongside all of you, just from further away

--Jesse Letourneau

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How I learned to stop worrying and love the RPG

There are levels of gaming.

There are party games (e.g. Pictionary, Apples to Apples, Taboo) designed to create interaction more then to have winners and losers (though some get pretty competitive).
There are board games (e.g.Trouble, Clue, Mouse Trap) where you roll the dice, you move your mice and nobody gets hurt. 
There are strategy games (e.g. Settlers of Cataan, Ticket to Ride) where game play depends on variable elements (the board might be set up different each time or what is available to buy or use might change from game to game).


Then there are RPGs.  RPGs-role playing games- are games where the gaming takes place in character.  Think the board game Clue, but everyone is using accents and has information/abilities unique to them.  If you have ever played one of those Murder Mystery game-in-box where you are given a character to play, then you have played an RPG .  (For the camp people: Initiatives are a lot like an RPG only all the characters are all 5th graders who don't listen.)

Actually there are not levels of gaming, merely types of gaming.  However, I like to pretend that there are levels and that they are vastly different from each other.  I do this mostly because it drives JR crazy.

As mentioned before, JR is a gamer.  He plays board games, table tops (RPGs) and LARPs (Live Action Role Play-similar to RPGs but with the absence of a board).  And for as long as I have known him he has tried to get me to come to a LARP.  I stubbornly refused.  Partly, because it drove JR crazy, and partly because I have built my self esteem around the concept of  the following comic I read online once.

While I proudly find myself in the box that reads "Comic book fans who read Superhero comics" which is on par with LARPers.  I wasn't willing to "descend" down another branch of Geekdom and join the world of LARPers.  That is I wasn't ready to do so until my first table top experience on August 2.

The story lines in RPGs and LARPs can either be continuous/indefinite or a one-off.  I played a one-off based on the world of Sky High. Comfortable with the setting (superheroes), I was able to relax into my character, who I definately share some characteristics with  (a competitive ex-jock who thinks because he is a super-hero for a living he is better than everyone he graduated with).

Now the major difference between RPGs and LARPs is that RPGs tend to be about puzzle solving and following the lead of the Story Teller while LARPs while having a plot tend to be more free flowing.  I was playing an RPG with a room full of LARPers.  It took us three hours to find and save the school (the game is designed to run about 1 to 1 1/2 hours).

But I had a blast the entire time. I had the chance to use my imagination while having to listen to the voices and ideas of others.  It isn't the worst way to spend an evening.  But the real reward of the night was the revelation I received.

I learned that I am comfortable with myself.  Acting (at least for me) is about finding pieces of yourself, often the hidden or the less pleasant elements of your personality, and exaggerating those pieces to create a new personality. 

I have been using my excuse of the "Hierarchy of Geekdom" for the last two years, because I was afraid of what others might see in me if I let my personality and my imagination run wild.  I hid behind not wanting to be "that kind of nerd" because I was afraid of what I might find in my personality.  However, over the last two years with all their ups and downs, I have found that I am a good person, a worthy person.  I have found that I like the kind of person I am.  I am not perfect, but here is the secret:

I never will be perfect.  So, I have stopped trying to be.  Instead, I am learning to be me.  A disciplined me, a selfless me, a responsible me, but not a perfect me  

To any and all that were at the game, "Thank you." I was able to relax, to find myself, and accept myself because I wasn't ostracized or criticized for being the new guy.


--Serving Him alongside all of you, just from further away
 --Jesse Letourneau

Next week: a quick look at some deep conversations held on the first day of my third year of seminary
or
"Jesse phones it in with a short blog"


Bonus graphs (click to make em bigger):

 

the true dichotomy

the true hierarchy

My week with JR

JR is a friend of mine from seminary.  We met during my first semester here at North Park.  My week with JR was only four days long, but it was packed with events.

Tuesday:
JR's birthday is July 31.  Last year a group of us celebrated by going to the Moth Story Slam in Chicago.  This year the tradition continued.(when your program lasts for only four years-anything that is done twice is considered tradition).  The two best stories told that night involved a young man learning how much his parents mean to him, and one involving the privileges of getting lost at Six Flags.  Despite the success of the event, the bar let us down with their food service so we decided to hit the Golden Nugget for late night breakfast foods.  We sat around telling our own stories.  I learned that in our group one person fears roller coasters and another fountains.

Oh, and Brian Babylon (the emcee of the night) just may have been a bit intoxicated and coerced into singing the National Anthem at evening's end.

Wednesday:
Wednesday nights are board game night.  To say that JR is a gamer is to say that the sky is blue.  Its obvious, everyone knows it, and it doesn't really due justice to the topic at hand.  I have been invited into JR's world of gaming friends.  But I draw the line at board games (see next week's blog).

This summer the regular host of board game night (Dan-who is one of the best people I have ever met) is remolding his kitchen so the games have been moved to another home.  Jim was out of town so it looked like it would simply be an off week.  However JR wanted to play board games on the actual date of his birth.

I had offered my humble home, but Dan insisted that he wanted to host JR on his birthday.  The three of us played board games at a little card table in the basement.  Nothing unique about the events of the night, however I got to share space with Dan and JR who are fast friends who can have entire conversations quoting lines from Monty Python, Muppets, and punchlines from inside joke culled from years of friendship.  Plus I only lost the first game (one I had never played before) by like two points.

Thursday:
Thursday was the last day of my Hebrew intensive.  That evening the class was invited to the professor's home for a potluck/BBQ.  After hanging out with some really cool people, I stopped by JR's (another really cool person) and we watched Veronica Mars reruns until 3 in the morning.

Friday:
Friday I played my first table top RPG.

 Next Week: My first Table Top or How I learned to stop worrying and love the RPG

--Serving Him alongside all of you, just from further away
--Jesse Letourneau